"The wisdom of the body is so rich... We go to school and learn and learn and learn, but the brilliance inside each person is amazing."
 
Tuesday, February 5th, 2013
10 Relationship Rules for Pursuers

1. Never pursue a distancer.
2. If he distances one inch, you distance two inches. 
3. Distance does not resolve conflicts
4. Allowing space gives each party a chance to cool down.
5. It reduces intensity and biological activation or upset.
6. Calmer less reactive responses can then emerge. 
8. The likelihood of a fight/flight or freeze response is reduced.
9. It is like an adult time out.
10. People are then free to respond rather than reacting to one another.

 

 

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